First know that I test positive for herpes type 2 genital but no outbreaks in years and I would take meds or other precautions (beyond just condoms) to keep partners safe. It’s not even on standard tests, so pretty much anyone can have it and be asymptomatic- public service announcement! If that is still a dealbreaker let’s save time!

I experience deep love for more than one person so if you’re jealous or conservative or old fashioned let’s also save time. Emphasis on love not just sex. I have 30 years of monogamy under my belt and wouldn’t automatically rule that out but only with an escape clause i.e. not being married because why?? There’s no right person if we’re all supposedly imperfect and we all change, including as we get older. I have been only in polyamorous relationships since 2020, and prior one since 2018 was monogamish, look it up if you like.

My two older kids are grown. I co-parent a lovely ball of energy 5 yr old who lives with her mom. I take my younger daughter on some fun adventures.

About me — kinda silly, adventurous ambivert. I LOVE some me-time every day especially for meditative yoga. No one has joined me yet for that so whatevs but I would love if a partner were into that and light yogic exercise. I LOVE karaoke. I dig philosophy and non-religious spirituality. I’m pretty kinky. You don’t have to be. I’m super into cycling, especially road biking and moderate trails but including long distance. I currently do RV life to be able to explore trans-safe areas (if there are any??!!) that have a lot of trails and bike lanes. I update my location sometimes when I travel. I’m a digital nomad but I prefer to go low-tech or even off-grid as much as possible. I’m a lot into tent camping not just RV, and primitive life skills. But I can just as well binge watch your favorite series or hang while you’re gaming, I might join in. I just don’t think of it on my own. I could do DND and a lot of witchy stuff, no takers yet.

I’m 99% vegetarian when I am by myself. I don’t even think about it, just love veggies A LOT. Love to cook. I do gluten free except for up to one weekly cheat. I had been strict about it for several years and my reactions finally decreased.

I am capable of being hypersexual as much as you love it, I am only super interested if you are too. Male parts fully working which feels like a built-in toy we can share. I am totally woman inside, sometimes thar happens I guess :). I don’t know whether I well take hormones or maybe even have bottom surgery someday but am not super worried about it. Definitely want boobs though. I’m new at being out as a woman, since 3/1/2023! Love it but so much bigotry and I need a really chill travel buddy for protecting each other from the bigots as well as it sounds awesome to do adventures with someone. Ultimately I would like to build a northern home and a southern one (snowbird) but SC is as far south as I want to go. I have a lot of chosen family there and pretty well known safe areas.

I love some pretty fucking weird hippie and alternative music. I hope you do too! I also love listening to partners’ music. That’s one of my favorite things about being poly. Not sure if I am partnered now, had a good thing going with a very dear mtf trans woman who is very much committed to being polyamorous. She might occasionally travel with me to a concert or something. Redo hang out when we can. She doesn’t get out as much as I do. Being a homebody has some merits I guess. I escaped a near attack near her place and then being publicly outed when I checked out another town. So I am leaving both those towns. She is open to relocating. As am I, definitely.

I love whatever great things there were about each relationship. If it isn’t working tho I am not “ride or die” I guess — but I do very much want to find long term and I don’t know why it has to be with only one person, what if we were all bff’s and lovers as each one.sees fit? I want to try that but so far it has only been solo poly or nesting and they want to control my every move, why? I don’t treat anyone that way. Someone said it’s because I’m a Gemini. If you care about that, I’m a Pisces moon, Sagittarius rising.

Some of the options on here are surprisingly limited and are mandatory fields, so please know I am not trying to mislead anyone and here are more details: I am a moderate drinker. That can exist! usually do a couple of Bud Lights to honor Dylan. If I am out at karaoke with you I might drink what is called heavy by some people but never ever blackout and puking like that implies. That happened 3 times in my life and I don’t at all anymore. I am pansexual but USUALLY much more interested in women — aka neptunic. No conceited types of any gender. My natural hair is brown but I wear an amazingly durable blond wig 24/7, rarely switch it. This is a trans dating site, right?

I hope to hear from ya!