About Me
I am looking for someone - the person I call "her." Whether I find her or not remains to be seen. So, I shoot a lot of proverbial "arrows in the dark" hoping one reaches her somehow. This is one of those arrows. I am moving permanently to Sweden at the end of March 2023 so I thought I might as well put myself out there as soon as possible. There is nothing I like or enjoy about the United States and want nothing to do with it henceforth. I will be living in Stockholm. I Speak English, Danish and Learning Swedish.
That being said, I am not into dating men - sorry guys, I am just not into it. I am a 47 year old Danish post-operative TS woman. For expository simplicity; I am a woman. I had SRS in 2014 when I was still in college believing the lies society tells us. I earned 4 college degrees.
I believe in honesty, integrity, love, happiness and tranquility. I am a hard person to like, talk to and even harder to love. I have a very "rough" personality and suffered through a lot of trauma in my life I care not to discuss with anyone. I am not like a lot of women due to the fact that I tend to be aberrant to a lot of established norms in modern western society. I am not into makeup, shopping, fashion, social gatherings, clubs, bars, drinking, or being in a city. The thought of being in a group of middle aged women makes me want to eat rat poison. I do not have a lot in common with many people. I am not really very interested in intimate relations either. As I said previously, I have been through a lot of trauma in my life making any type of carnal relations unappealing. It would take a great deal of time (patience) and understanding before I would every consider that type of activity again; however, it would appear that the vast majority of people lack either quality. I prefer small towns (the smaller the better), the mountains, forests, rivers, and the ocean.
I am not a social person and do not care if I have friends or not. I see virtually everyone as an acquaintance with no desire to make it anything other than that. I am private and keep my affairs to myself. The modern world is just not for me and, quite frankly, I do not really want to be a part of it anymore so I limit myself as much as possible. I enjoy the small things in life, walks in the forests, spending the day by a river or a lake with nobody else around, wandering about the mountains in the summer and taking in all the wonders that life has to offer. I am not a Christian, will never be a Christian and do not want to talk about that religion in any capacity whatsoever.
I am modest about 95% of the time. My favourite clothing is pre 14th century flax and wool dresses. They are so comfortable, so simple, and it is just what fits me. I do not care about electronics, cars, computers, phones, and most of the other trivial stuff people fixate on these days. I'd rather walk or ride a horse everywhere. My idea of a wonderful day is waking up before the twilight hour, wrapping up in a warm wool blanket and watching the sun rise drinking coffee. I play the harp, love archery, reading, writing, and just enjoying the peace and quiet with a wondrous glass of wine by an open fire.
Maybe you are here at this website too....maybe you will see this one day...MAYBE