I am a virgin saving for love; not inexperienced & learned with toys just never had the real thing. And no the ring on my finger in some of my pictures is not for real; it's an adjustable silver ring that I wear as I dream of a real one so please see that as a girl wishing gesture & not something to eliminate you. Once I talk to someone I feel is legitimate I then stop talking to others; I'm not a outwardly flirty person with strangers anyways. I don't see men as options to talk to as many as possible either. I am romantic,affectionate,hugger,kisser & cuddler. Homeless staying at the Chattanooga rescue mission but motivated. If you see me out & about there's no mistaking me; dressed girly/casual,black hair & piney tail pulling a big black rolling suitcase with a bright green backpack attached to the top of it. It weighs about 80 pounds but I get around town with it. I don't do drugs,no vices,no addictions & no emotional,physical or anger issues. Very patient,calm,calculated,problem solver but also spunky. I may be 41 but don't let that fool you; I may be mature,proper & classy but I'm a ball of energy knowing when it's time to be calm & quiet. Clean,quiet,genuine,have business savy;not too good to work. Willing to relocate for a forever gentlemen; need a man with himself together & his own place. I don't believe in lying or thievery; even when I've gone without food I couldn't bring myself to go into a store & steal food; I'd rather earn it. I'm not a goldigger or freeloader; I wouldn't run wild with someone's money even if they told me to because I am responsible. I had a driver's license but it expired in 2009 while in prison; I had a 2002 ford taurus SHO & I babied it. I'm not to good for a used practical car but a car is not a must. I have a record but like being homeless it's not me; I've had people all the way back to my family accuse me of things just because they didn't like me being transgender. I know all of what I say sounds good but it is real, i am honest, an open book,no mysteries & I want people I'm around to know all of me; if your hiding something then you've done something wrong especially when people aren't willing to talk about their record. I have nothing to be ashamed of. I love animals,outdoors,outdoor dinning & even just cuddling up to a movie or foreside. I do love pro football but it's not a deal breaker if you don't, I'm a born Seattle Seahawks fan but just watching from home is fine for me. I enjoy daily fitness,yoga & what's refered to as "bar routine" (ballet type exercise) & I'm a nutrition fan. I weigh about 160ish now but once I have a place to live & can do my daily routine I would go back down to 135ish but I don't lose my legs or butt. Living at a homeless shelter I can't maintain proper diet or exercise; though I do walk a lot being put out at 5am no matter the weather. Not looking for sympathy just telling it how it is; I'm not the type to say what others want to hear to get my way. I love fashion but on a budget; all of the clothes in my pictures are either free or from a thrift store in chattanooga,tn. that I love. I'd love to be able to afford Macy's & poshmark but I'm not a designer hungry girl. I do want a man to doll up for to go out but especially around the house; so I'm not flamboyant or loud about who I am but I'm not discreet. I will respect my man's boundaries outside the home if he wishes; I know some have a reputation to uphold but I am a girl you can take around family & business associates & fit in not make a scene or feel or look out of place. By the way I'm not too good for make up but can't afford it now so my pictures aren't perfect. I love music of all types; even classical music & am a sucker for those who can play piano & guitar. I consider myself to be cultured,classy & proper; I raised myself to be cordial & educated. I am a home maker that can keep a home better than most women. I am the type to greet a man at the door cute, smelling good with a drink for him to relax when he comes home but these aren't things about me that go away once I get in the door; I am a nurturing,caring person. I've even been a caretaker/housekeeper. I want a gentlemen that wants all of a girl;cook, clean & please. Be nice; I was on another site & dealt with scammers & creeps. I have plenty of pictures. I hope that this site doesn't start charging once messages start coming in like other sites do because I'd love to be able to respond to you; fair warning: if we talk I will type a lot. I'm not use to having some one to talk to plus guys that have talked to me usually talk a lot for a day then disappear off & on so please don't do that it's depressing. Thank you & be blessed.